Day 5: High-five

“Happiness is the default state of mind. So when the mind becomes calm and clear, it returns to its default, and that default is happiness. That is it. There is no magic; we are simply returning the mind to its natural state.

…happiness is not something you pursue; it is something you allow. Happiness is just being.”

Re-reading this insight from the book Search Inside Yourself by Chad Meng-Tan is motivating me to make sure I don’t forget to meditate today, like I have the last two days. Even just two minutes is fantastic!

A quiet moment helping my muscles recover in cold mountain river water on a hot day

Morning Stats

Yang/firing up:

  • gave myself a high-five in the mirror (idea came from Mel Robbins’ book The High 5 Habit)
  • cold shower
  • motivational speech (my favorite so far): https://youtu.be/G4mXY6pR7L0
  • 75 minute bike ride

Yin/cooling down:

  • morning mantra: “Today I choose joy.”
  • 2 minutes of meditation
  • 5 minutes of yoga
  • 5 minutes of dynamic stretching before bike ride

Evening update:

• soaked my legs in cold river water for ten minutes

• listened to 10 minute Yoga Nidra app, followed by 15 minutes of the Meditation Oasis app (formerly called Simply Being)

grateful for a chance to take care of our friends’ dogs while they travel.

Day 4: Hungry for More

Time to get gritty…

“We humans like gritty hard work, because gritty hard work provides better long-term survival benefits. And if we can tap into that, we can fundamentally change the quality of our life.

While grit requires more energy and emotional fortitude in the short run, it provides a much bigger boost in mood and motivation in the long run.”

The Art of Impossible, a book by Steven Kotler

Morning Stats

Yang/firing up:

  • Cold shower
  • Motivational speech by Oprah https://youtu.be/lRrZiiMT68g
  • pushups 3 x 14 (42 total)
  • 3 x 11, 9, 8 (28 total) My most-ever (strict) pullups in a row is 16, before I had my baby almost five years ago. My new goal, as a fresh 40 year-old, is 20 in a row – hoping this 4-5 days a week consistency will get me there.
  • a bit more strength training and a one hour run with plyometric drills
Getting creative getting those morning pull-ups in

Yin/cooling down:

  • 20 minute yoga/stretch/trigger point therapy work
  • Morning mantra: “I’m grateful for this day. I will use my time wisely.”
  • (Forgot to meditate again – gotta work on that!)

Evening Update

  • One hour mobility/strength combo session with Higher Ground Athletics
  • 2 minute meditation
  • Legs up the wall with cups on them (while playing a giraffe game with my kid!)

Feeling grateful/hopeful that the Achilles tendinitis I’ve had for three months (that I thought was plantar fasciitis) is starting to finally go away!

Day 3 to Becoming the Best Me

According to some quick search engine research, it seems to take either 21 or 66 days to form a habit, so we’re either 1/7th or 1/22nd of the way there – either way, congrats!

Morning stats

Yang/firing up

  • stood on one leg while brushing teeth to activate glutes
  • cold shower (technically three of them today because the pool shower had no hot water for my pre-and post-swim rinse)
  • listened to this motivational speech by Denzel Washington
  • 90 minute bike ride
  • 20 minute swim (this took more effort than the bike ride!)

Yin/cooling down

  • no social media until 9am
  • 12 minute stretch/yoga
  • (forgot to meditate in the morning)
  • morning mantra: “My body is rested and my mind is clear.”
“It is our choices, Harry, that show us what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” – J.K.Rowling

Evening update

  • listened to 15 minutes of the meditation app “Simply Being”
  • 5 minute foam roll
  • 5 minute Hypervolt
  • 30 minute core/grip/shoulder workout

Feeling grateful Taylor and I got to meet up with a friend, her four year-old, and her newborn.

Day Two: Let’s Do This

Woke up feeling excited about this new plan! Momentum is a beautiful thing…

Morning Stats

Yang/firing up:

Yin/cooling down:

  • morning mantra: “My body is rested and my mind is clear. Today is going to be a great day.”
  • 12 minute stretch/yoga
  • no social media until 9am
  • 45 minute acupuncture appointment

Nutrition challenge: increase fruit and veggie intake by double.

Grateful for: the sound of baby birds chirping by my window.

Evening update:

  • Quick date with Tim
  • Fun dance party with Taylor
  • Sent two emails I’ve been procrastinating sending (an invoice and a proposal)
  • 10 minutes of mobility work

How To Increase Your Running Mileage Without Getting Injured

A limiting belief I’ve told myself for over a decade is that I can’t run high mileage without getting injured. (I started to try once, when I first got to college, and…got injured, with a stress fracture, after increasing from 25 miles a week in high school to 50 miles a week, within less than four months).

Three months ago, when covid wiped all of my races off the calendar for a few months, I figured it was time to go for it again, using all the information I’ve gathered over the years from reading running books, and observing my training and others’.

“What did I have to lose?” I figured.

This week’s training stats of 80 miles of running (along with 53 miles of biking and a couple hours of strength training) exceeded my goal of hitting a 65 mile week (after hovering around 45-50 most of my athletic career).

Looping through trails may not lead to a cure for cancer, (though I am learning quite a bit about cool topics like neuroscience, social psychology, grit, and motivation from my self-help audiobooks), but it has allowed me to expand what I think is possible, a discovery I’m confident will flow over into other parts of my life in a positive way, and inspire my daughter, too.

And while this piece of running mileage is setting me up for a potentially excellent season, if I get so fortunate as to safely have one), it’s done that much more than that for me. It has proven to me that I can focus and get more organized than I thought I could, resulting in accomplishing more than I thought possible (at least for the disorganized, monkey-minded, stress fracture-prone me, who, even if her body could handle the mileage wasn’t sure her mind could).

Tips for increasing mileage:

  • only increase mileage by no more than 10% each week (so if you run 30 miles in one week, only add up to three more miles the following week)
  • so the two weeks up, one week down method: incrementally increase your mileage for two weeks by 10% each week, and then decrease by 20% for a week before building on to the previous weeks total by 10%
  • proactively schedule and self-care, such as dynamic stretching before your run, static stretching after, doing mobility work, foam rolling, and putting your feet up the wall
  • eat plenty of nutrient-dense food and always have a water bottle nearby for adequate hydration

And if you start to feel rundown, in the words of my Georgetown track coach, “When in doubt, take a nap“ or a day off from running.